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Questionnaire for pregnant women 1) Are you the kind of woman who does not miss much in life, or would you like to live like Victoria Beckham?
Yes No
2) Do you feel or have you ever felt that you are not a real woman without a child?
Yes No
3) Do you feel or have you ever felt that others would be pleased to see you pregnant?
Yes No
4) Have you ever asked yourself if it is right or wrong to have a child?
Yes No
5) Have you ever had disputes about these questions?
Yes No
6) Do you think sometimes about the hardships mothers are facing with regard to their children?
Yes No
7) Have you ever felt devastated due to the fact that everyday life entails problems, difficulties, conflicts?
Yes No
8) Does the following statement sound reasonable to you: “Small children – small problems; big children – big problems”?
Yes No
9) Do you believe that having a child will make you happy?
Yes No
10) Have you ever asked yourself why many mothers seem to be unhappy rather than happy?
Yes No
11) Do you believe that it is always helpful to see things positively?
Yes No
12) Do you always trust your feelings?
Yes No
13) Do you believe that your feelings guide you better through life rather than the use of reason?
Yes No
14) Has it ever appeared to you that most couples with kids are suffering from deep dissatisfaction?
Yes No
Questions For Mothers 1) Hollywood “shapes” celebrities, like trees in the garden. Angelina Jolie is one of those “trees”. Do you agree that mothers should shape their children’s behavior according to Hollywood rules?
Yes No
2) Do you agree that children are being educated through television and cinema and take many examples from there as their ‘role models’ in life?
Yes No
3) Do you agree with the following statement: “Do you know the surest way to make your child miserable? Let him have everything he wants.”?
Yes No
4) Do you always see the difference between what children want and what they really need?
Yes No
5) Are you the kind of mother that finds it difficult to say “no” if your child is desperately begging for something?
Yes No
6) If yes, does it happen often?
Yes No
7) Do you feel sorry when your child cries for whatever reason?
Yes No
8) Do you love your child more than you love yourself?
Yes No
9) Did you ever had the impression that there is something “wrong” with other people’s kids?
Yes No
10) Is it important for you what other people might think about you and your child?
Yes No
11) Would you visit your child’s school on a regularly basis and (ex: twice per week) to find out the latest news?
Yes No
12) Would you visit your child’s school only when it was really necessary, not on a regular basis, because you feel that parents should not exercise too much control upon a child?
Yes No
13) When it comes to the higher education of your child, would you be constantly involved with his/her affairs at the university in order to make sure that your child does his/her assignments on time and properly attends the institution?
Yes No
14) Would you be the first one in the family to say “yes” or “no” to your child’s future choices in life?
Yes No
15) If your child does not want to follow something you have been insisting on, would you complain to someone and/or force your child to do that?
Yes No
16) Do you like the idea that one day your child will become totally independent and might forget his childhood years and most likely will visit your house a couple of times per year?
Yes No
17) Would you be happy to stay together with your child under the same roof and see what progress he/she has done?
Yes No
18) Would you be ready to accept a situation in which your child supports his/her wife’s/husband’s side in the event of a family conflict?
Yes No